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Wednesday, December 22, 2010

4 lessons for my kids


Someone asked me about a year ago what was the most important lessons I wanted to teach my kids. It was a great question. And I really wasn't all that clear in my answers or certainly as clear as I should have been. I rambled on and of course had ideas I wanted Teddy and Tate to learn. But I really wasn't all that clear. So I have worked on that and now am very clear.
  1. Humility
  2. Generosity
  3. Thankfulness
  4. Courage

As a Dad, I have my work cut out because they follow the leader. I have to be the example. And this is huge responsibly that keeps me up at night because the margin for error is zero.

Monday, December 13, 2010

That Place This Place


I am going through this place in order to get to a better place.

Fun? NO
Enjoyable? NO
Like it? NO
Looking forward to it? NO
Want others to go there to? NO
Necessary? Absolutely...it's the only way!

But I have to go through these crazy storms in order to get to where I want to go. Where do I want to go? In a word PEACE! Specifically God's peace. So why are the storms necessary? I don't have all the answers yet but there are four concepts I am sure of:
  • Trust God completely with my life
  • Obedience in God's word
  • Priorities by putting Jesus above all else
  • Selfless with others before me

And these just are not fancy buzz words or "yeah that's really cute speaker-boy..." type noisy conversations; but rather concepts seeping deep into my spirit.

So maybe your storms are not so bad? Possibly your adversity is a good thing? Could it be that your tough times are really disguised as opportunities? Maybe it's all intentional to get you from that place over to this place....just like I am going through now.

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