
If you can't honestly answer with the affirmative that we share the same goal, then there is a problem. Either you have the wrong person or you have to brush on your leadership skills and really think about what your job is as a leader.
Warning: THIS TAKES HUGE COMMITMENTS AND HARD WORK AND MUCH CARING!
But I will tell you this; there is nothing more rewarding than watching people grow and get better!
Have a plan, work at it, and never ever stop working with your people. As I ask my clients: Tell me something you are working on that is more important than your people? I never get anything better in a response.